By Aparna Patni
Astrological remedies to calm anger, impatience, and emotional imbalance

When Purvashada Nakshatra is afflicted in a birth chart, a person may start showing sudden impulsive actions, impatience, emotional rigidity and increased anger. This nakshatra is naturally connected with a strong desire for victory, recognition and constant progress, therefore when its balance is disturbed, the same power appears as stubbornness, frustration, conflicts in relationships and deep inner restlessness. By following the right astrological remedies with discipline and faith, the intense energy of Purvashada Nakshatra can become stable and can move towards mature decision making, emotional balance and progress in the right direction.
Many natives born under Purvashada Nakshatra are very talented, yet sudden anger, rigid opinions or inability to accept defeat start becoming problems. There is a strong desire to win but when circumstances do not support, disappointment and irritation increase. During such phases, unnecessary arguments, harsh speech and distance in relationships may rise. Some people feel that even after giving their best, the mind does not relax, sleep is disturbed at night and the response to small issues becomes very sharp. These are clear signs that the energy of Purvashada Nakshatra is not in balance and that it is time to guide it correctly through planetary and nakshatra based remedies.
The ruling planet of Purvashada Nakshatra is Venus, which is considered the significator of grace, emotional balance, beauty, social harmony and refined enjoyment. When Purvashada Nakshatra is afflicted and agitation, aggression or excessive impulsiveness increase in the nature, it often indicates weakened Venus energy. When Venus is strengthened, gentleness appears in behaviour, sweetness remains in relationships and decisions are taken with a natural blend of practicality and sensitivity.
There are some simple but powerful practices to strengthen Venus. Use natural fragrances such as sandalwood, rose or jasmine on a regular basis. They calm the mind and add softness to the atmosphere. Every Friday, lighting incense sticks or dhoop at home or in the place of worship helps to reduce negativity and improves mental attitude. Keeping the living space clean orderly and aesthetically pleasing also attracts Venus energy. When surrounding spaces are beautiful and well organised, inner irritation and haste start reducing on their own.
For Venus related remedies, Friday is considered especially auspicious. On this day, after bathing, wearing neat and light coloured clothes and decorating the place of worship with fragrance, dhoop or lamps is beneficial. If possible, choose evening time when daily rush has settled slightly and sit quietly for some moments in a Venus focused prayer. One may also take a gentle resolve once or twice a week to practise softer, calmer behaviour so that inner energy becomes more aligned with Venus qualities. Through this, when outer remedies are joined with inner refinement, Purvashada affliction starts decreasing gradually.
For natives of Purvashada Nakshatra, worship of Lord Vishnu and Goddess Lakshmi is highly auspicious. Through this, ambition is aligned with dharma and material desires are guided through spiritual discipline. When the desire for victory is joined with righteousness and patience, the same energy results in genuine success, honour and stability. With the grace of Vishnu and Lakshmi, the mind becomes steady and decisions can be taken calmly and clearly.
It is recommended to recite the Vishnu Sahasranama 77th and 78th shlokas regularly, either daily or at least on Fridays. This has a positive influence on the mind and softens rigid ego patterns. For the blessings of Goddess Lakshmi, chanting Lakshmi Sahasranama is also helpful, which opens pathways for stability, prosperity and emotional fulfilment. During worship, offer yellow flowers, light a ghee lamp and place some sweets as offering if possible. Together, these practices balance Purvashada energy with patience, discipline and wisdom.
| Step | Practice |
|---|---|
| 1 | Take a bath and get ready in a calm morning or evening |
| 2 | Light a ghee lamp before Vishnu and Lakshmi |
| 3 | Recite 77th and 78th verses of Vishnu Sahasranama |
| 4 | Chant some names from Lakshmi Sahasranama |
| 5 | Offer yellow flowers and sweets with sincere prayer |
Under Purvashada affliction, harsh speech, excessive pride and emotional toughness often increase. In such a condition, regular charity becomes a very important remedy, as it reduces the intensity of karmic patterns. When a person rises above ego and gives something for the benefit of another, inner rigidity begins to melt and humility with sensitivity starts growing. This inner shift gradually reflects in relationships and behaviour.
It is especially auspicious to donate certain items on Fridays or on Purvashada Nakshatra days. Butter and curd symbolise cooling, soothing energy which calms inner heat and anger. Camphor represents the burning away of ego and purification of the mind. Offering these items at temples or to the needy softens the temperament of Purvashada natives and brings greater peace, gentleness and emotional balance.
| Item | Symbolic meaning | When to donate |
|---|---|---|
| Butter | Coolness, gentleness and soft approach | After Friday worship |
| Curd | Calmness, digestion and emotional ease | To temples or needy people on Fridays |
| Camphor | Ego dissolution and mental purification | Burn in worship or offer at the temple |
Colours directly influence planetary and nakshatra vibrations. When fire and impulsive tendencies are high in Purvashada, soft and soothing colours become helpful. The colour pink supports emotional healing, tenderness and the refined energy of Venus. This shade gradually melts suppressed anger and hardness and brings gentleness. Light blue is connected with patience, calmness and mental stability and is especially suited for balancing inner turbulence.
These colours can be included in daily clothing, scarves and shawls or small accessories. They can also be used in home decor through curtains, cushions or bedsheets. When a person surrounds themselves with colours that naturally calm the mind, impulsive reactions start coming under control and the intensity of Purvashada begins to transform into focused, stable energy.
The Beej Mantra connected with a nakshatra balances energy at a very subtle level. For Purvashada Nakshatra, the beej mantra “Om Bum” is used. Regular chanting of this mantra can reduce inner restlessness, strengthen decision making and guide fiery energy into disciplined expression. This mantra refines the victory giving power of Purvashada and directs it towards steady and balanced success.
The beej mantra “Om Bum” may be chanted 27, 54 or 108 times daily. Early morning or around sunset is especially suitable. Sit facing the east in a quiet place, close the eyes gently, keep the breath natural and chant the mantra clearly. It is also fine to start with a lower count and gradually increase it as consistency grows. Over time, impulsive reactions reduce, self control strengthens and Purvashada energy feels noticeably more balanced.
| Count | Suitable for |
|---|---|
| 27 | Natives with very busy schedules |
| 54 | Regular practitioners |
| 108 | Deep seekers with committed practice |
Life style plays an equal role alongside rituals and mantras in shaping Purvashada expression. For natives of this nakshatra, excessive competition and a constant urge to prove themselves may create fatigue and stress. It is helpful to keep ambition intact, yet protect some time for self care, quiet moments with family or meaningful creative activity.
Very spicy or excessively heavy food may increase internal heat and irritability, therefore balanced diet, adequate water and light nourishing meals support emotional harmony. A short portion of the day reserved for calm walking, gentle exercise or deep breathing can stabilise Purvashada energy. When balance is cultivated both internally and externally, the power of this nakshatra begins to cooperate more smoothly with life conditions.
Purvashada Nakshatra is a highly powerful star which, when guided well, can grant success, leadership and influence. When afflicted, the same power turns inward as impatience, anger and emotional volatility that quietly drains the person. The remedies described here are not meant to suppress Purvashada energy but to refine it so that raw ambition gradually transforms into dignified achievement and mature emotional understanding.
When Venus becomes stronger, when the grace of Vishnu and Lakshmi is invoked, when ego softens through charity, when mind is soothed through colours and when inner discipline awakens through the beej mantra “Om Bum,” Purvashada Nakshatra starts revealing its best potential for long term success and a balanced life.
What is the easiest remedy to start with for Purvashada affliction?
For most people, beginning with Venus related practices is simplest, such as using natural fragrances, lighting incense or dhoop on Fridays and keeping the home clean and aesthetically pleasant. Gradually, Vishnu and Lakshmi worship and beej mantra chanting can be added.
Is it necessary to give charity every Friday for Purvashada Nakshatra?
It is not compulsory to donate every Friday but consistent charity is more effective. Offering butter, curd or camphor in temples or to the needy within one’s capacity helps reduce hardness and impulsiveness of Purvashada.
What should be kept in mind while chanting the beej mantra “Om Bum”?
A calm mind and quiet place are important. Sit facing east in a comfortable posture, keep the breath relaxed and chant clearly. Starting with 27 repetitions and then increasing gradually keeps the practice light and regular.
Which colours should Purvashada natives use regularly to keep the mind calm?
For Purvashada natives, pink and light blue are especially supportive. Using these colours in clothing, home decor or workspaces can help enhance emotional softness, patience and mental steadiness.
Can Purvashada affliction go away only through worship and mantras?
Worship and mantras are strongly helpful, yet changes in behaviour, speech and life style are equally necessary. When a person consciously works on anger, haste and ego and adopts more patience, humility and disciplined routine, Purvashada remedies become far more effective.
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