By Pt. Nilesh Sharma
Traits and Nature of Cancer Men and Women Based on Moon Sign

This article is based on the Moon sign. In Vedic astrology, the Moon sign reflects your emotional nature and mental temperament. To know your Moon sign, you need to check the position of the Moon at the time of your birth. By consulting a skilled astrologer or getting your birth chart prepared, you can find out your Moon sign.
Cancer zodiac individuals are known for their emotional depth, family values and nurturing nature. Ruled by the Moon, this sign carries the water element which makes them sensitive and filled with intuitive intelligence. Cancer natives are traditional and give highest priority to their home and family. Their caring instinct gives them a special place in life. This sign symbolizes loyalty, devotion and emotional intelligence. Cancer individuals are also famous for their strong memory power and protective nature.
Cancer men are soft, nurturing, loving and caring for the ones they deeply care for. They may be uniquely in touch with their emotions. They are able to handle roles that their counterparts will be utterly lost in, like love, romance and parenting. They are chivalrous but are deeply sensitive and easily wounded. They don't forgive and give a second chance to those who have hurt them intensely. They possess deep and long memories and never forget the slightest and smallest events they have experienced. They will be undyingly loyal to the ones who are kind to them.
| Trait | Description | Impact |
|---|---|---|
| Traditionalist | Belief in old principles and values | Deep attachment to family and culture |
| Kind and Nurturing | Natural instinct to care for others | Deep commitment in relationships |
| Loyal and Dependable | Taking trust very seriously | Building lifelong relationships |
| Supportive and Sentimental | Listening to others' problems and helping | Strong emotional bonds |
| Moody | Rapid mood changes | Emotional ups and downs due to Moon's influence |
| Secretive | Hiding feelings | Deep personality and mysteriousness |
Cancer men are courteous and the incarnation of old-school principles and manners. They are patriotic, traditional and imbibe all family values. They are shy and have a natural distrust of others. Their roots are deeply embedded in their values and traditions.
Cancer men are highly loyal, trustworthy and true blue friends and mates. They will have a lifelong relationship with everyone. They will lend their helping hand to their closed ones and always support them. But they can have mood swings, deep emotions and empathy or create distance at times.
They open-mindedly listen to the views and problems of their closed ones. They can rely on them at any time. They motivate them and boost their confidence. They also give them the required advice and suggestions. They never forget the special occasions and events of their life. They store all fine things and incidences related to them in their memory and stand with them when they really need them.
Cancer men's moods change very quickly. Their activities and choices will also keep on changing as per their mood. They will be in their comfort zone at one moment and on the other, they will be hanging out with friends. They will not show their soft spot to everyone. They prefer to cry and get emotional in their shell.
It is very hard for Cancer men to show their real feelings to everyone. They don't prefer to spit out what is wrong with them easily. It is because they never want others to presume things for them. They can't easily admit to their partner when they are done in a relationship with them. They find difficulty in speaking their heart out. On the positive side, they can keep the mysteries of life alive and people will not know what they are up to.
Cancer men love to stay at home and invest their energy, ideas and thoughts at home. They will be more inclined towards the activities that can be done sitting at home like inviting friends over for dinner, playing games and watching TV. Nothing is more important for them in life above their relatives and family. They want to be in a relationship with someone who can take proper care and nurture their family.
A Cancer man in love and relationships will be a long term partner for the right woman. Their emotions and feelings come from the heart and not mind. They are extremely affectionate, thoughtful and intuitive of the feelings of others, especially for loved and closed ones. They thrive on stability, security and comfort in love and relationships. They make faithful, loyal and supportive husbands and with kids, they are kind and patient. Their love and relationships are well-tended, incredibly romantic and possess a great sense of humor.
If you have a Cancerian in your sights, you may be eager to attract them towards you. Here are some things you can do to win their affection. Cancer men are emotional and need reassurance. Show honesty and openness. Respect their family and show interest in their domestic life. Understand their feelings and be patient with them.
Cancer is considered one of the most emotional Moon signs since it belongs to the category of water signs which are ruled by emotions. Cancer has the added value of being ruled by Moon which gives it a level of instability in emotions since it changes its shapes regularly i.e. waxing and waning. Cancers therefore have mood swings which they find difficult to handle. Cancers are also known as the nourishers of the zodiac as long as they are in Pushya nakshatra which is represented by cow's udders.
Cancers are generally home bodies and love their family bonds. Each and every member of the family means the world to them and they are responsible towards their family. They are generally the ones to take up the role of a responsible father-figure and have great empathy for their parents. They are very loyal to their parents and their closed ones. They are men who their parents are proud of.
In personal lives, they act as crabs, crab being their sign. They stay away from limelight and seek places which make them feel at ease. A Cancer man doesn't get flashy, for one and second, they dislike anything that is dramatic or unsettling. This is a peace-loving sign that adores serenity. When the sign moves towards Ashlesha, they tend to get slightly shrewd and pessimistic.
Cancerians have mood swings like none other. On a vacation, you will have no clue what's next. One second he's all happy and cheery, next second he's grumpy because of something random like weather. He gets agitated even with slight changes in the surrounding. When happy, they can be really soft and comforting but if gloomy, then the whole place feels doomed. And these mood swings happen often with a Cancer Moon man. however they never get angry but they will show their disinterest by removing themselves from that situation altogether to avoid conflicts.
They are highly sensitive and therefore require someone who isn't impulsive or can at least balance them out but at the same time understand what they are feeling without them having to say it out aloud. Their sensitive partner can notice that behind this misbehavior lies their feeling of insecurity.
Cancerians like trying out all shades. They are not stuck to just a few five to six colors. They prefer softer tones. This softness represents their watery nature of the mind and the mood swings from one emotion to another. These guys won't shy away from wearing soft conventionally-feminine colors either. They can carry soft yellow or baby pink well. You would find them wearing or looking good in chequered shirts. Classic looks that men carry either suited up or in soft tones of chequered shirts are what they generally prefer. They stay away from bold or too bright colors.
The three constellations belonging to Cancer are: Punarvasu (first three phases) is represented by a quiver and arrows. People belonging to this nakshatra are goal-oriented, philanthropic, extremely honest and have a strong sense of right and wrong and do not fall prey to ill-means. Pushya is represented by cow's udders which symbolizes nourishment and care. These are the motherly figures of the zodiac and are extremely family-oriented. They respect their elders and treat their young ones with love, care and kindness. Ashlesha is represented by the coiled snake. It is a clingy constellation and is ruled by Nagas or serpents. These people are strategic and manipulators of facts.
Cancerians are responsible family men, who don't shy away from taking up responsibilities of not just the masculine ones but also helping the other members with chores. They believe in showing their love through helping and assisting everyone at home and therefore suit well for all household functions and duties. They are also very attached to their family, sometimes, it is just their family and few set of friends probably from childhood whom they cherish and provide their best self to.
An elder brother with Cancer Moon is one who lives as per the wishes and jollies of his younger one. He simply cannot not fulfil the demands of his little born sibling. They will always be little to him and therefore their wishes should be fulfilled and it is imperative that they be looked after well. For an elder Cancerian brother with a younger sister, these are the most caring elder brothers one could ask for. They are not dominating, super-loving and protective but not possessive and understand them and stand up for them as and when required.
Cancerians are easy-going friends who will be there for you. They will be your friends only if you form an emotional connection with them. They are not very vocal about it but generally keep their friends close to their heart. They are reliable and dependable and can give you practical solutions or understand your emotional upheavals and at least will sit there with you while you feel down or low.
Their love language is not steamy or rough, rather soft and gentle. Slow burning passion is more their style. They cherish every moment with their partner and prefer home-dates. This would mean cooking together, watching a movie cozying inside a blanket and falling off to sleep or having conversations in the bed. It might lead to a gentle love session but its slow-paced. You need to understand and connect emotionally with this man to get anywhere with him, especially, unspoken communication a kind which relates to subconscious bonding and reading him mentally before him even expressing it in any way.
Cancerians are the kind of husbands that no woman would have any complaints with. He is devoted, kind, compassionate and there to help out with the chores as well. You will never find his wife complaining about I am the one who does everything around the house by myself because that is not the case. He will assist her and his marriage is all about partnership. He will be an equal contributor in all. He is affectionate and appreciative of his wife for the way she takes care of the house, even though he will be equally contributing.
Cancers are the most gentle fathers of all zodiac signs. He takes as much pride in his role of good parenting as much as he does in bringing food to the table. He is loving, caring and very understanding. He is the one that a kid can freely talk to in their confusing growing up years. He can help them through it and be a best friend to them. He will be a joy to be with on family vacations and make memorable moments with his children.
Cancer women are all about emotions and feelings. Their personalities are ruled by deep feelings and intuitions. They seek emotional security and an urge for genuineness and honesty in building up a relationship with others. They are ruled by the Moon and hence their mood keeps on changing very quickly just like different phases of the Moon. They can be emotional, stubborn, compliant, fierce, angry, volatile, passive and dutiful at the same time. They love to be in their shell. Hence, it is hard to spot them out in a crowd.
| Trait | Description | Impact |
|---|---|---|
| Tough as well as Soft | Hard from outside but soft inside | Balanced personality |
| Loyal | Faithfulness in relationships | Lifelong bonds |
| Overreact | Overreacting to situations | Emotional sensitivity |
| Diplomatic | Avoiding fights | Peace-loving nature |
| Many Facets | Multiple aspects and qualities | Complex personality |
| Emotional and Intuitive | Deep feelings and intuition | Strong insight |
| Selfless | Sacrifice for others | Giving unlimited love |
Cancer women are soft, loving, caring and good nurturers. At the same time, they are strict disciplinarians. They are hard from outside but very soft and gentle from inside. They are soft and easy-going but can turn into a fighter when time and situations demand it.
Cancer women are very loyal in their relationships. They take time to build trust but once it is built they maintain it for a lifetime. They handle family responsibilities perfectly and do everything to protect them.
Cancer women are great leaders, fantastic friends and inspirational conversationalists. But on the flip side, they have a tendency to overreact to situations and issues. They may have an inferiority complex and like to be in their shell. They are very quick to close their shell if insulted and beat themselves up over it. They have the tendency to live in their imaginative world and memories. It is very hard for them to pin down their memories.
Cancer women hate involving themselves in fights and issues. They are peacemakers and stay as diplomats. They won't confront right away. But at the time they don't hesitate to do the same when they are standing up in support of their closed ones.
Cancer women possess many facets which include everything from shyness and being an introvert to a desire of being center stage. They are sensitive, empathetic, emotional, romantic and kind. At the same time, they are artistic, eccentric and flamboyant. They win over the people around with their goodness, moral and family values.
Cancer women get emotionally nervous and upset when their past haunts their heart. They are sensitive and sympathetic not only for their needs but also for the need of others. They are deeply intuitive and possess awesome imaginative powers. They get instincts when something bad is going to happen even if they don't know the reason for the same. Their instinct surely comes true sooner or later.
Cancer women sacrifice everything for their closed ones. They are selfless in their love and keep on giving everything until the point they don't have anything left. They may face trouble due to this as they don't focus on self and refresh themselves on a regular basis.
Cancer woman in love and relationships has high expectations about the way her partner should demonstrate his feelings. She is emotional, sensitive, affectionate and caring in love and relationships. She always tries to be with a man who can understand her emotions and sentiments completely and can empathize with her. She has an urge for emotional support and bonding of souls. She needs protection, devotion and courage from her closed ones and partner. She is too shy to express her feelings aloud.
Cancer Moon women carry a lot of positive traits such as spiritual inclination, devoted to her husband, respectful towards in-laws and submissive to elders, nourishing, extremely caring and one who derives her sense of happiness from her home and family. She is also the first water sign which makes her sensitive and emotional. In relationships, they tend to get clingy to their partners and if they can, then they would follow them to the ends of the earth and hell as well but they won't ever live without them.
A Cancer woman might be slightly hard to understand since she doesn't reveal her emotions easily, is shy and sentimental. Due to her disinterest in conveying emotions and keeping it close to herself, she needs someone who understands her sensitive nature well and is patient with her. Deep inside though, she is very conservative and sorted. Her intention here in keeping things to herself might very well be to not upset anyone with her own sentiments.
A Cancer Moon sign born woman is full of paradox. Others find her interesting due to the inconsistency and contradiction in her personality. She is both moody and vulnerable, guarded and reliable, extremely cautious of change but still adaptable. The varied layers in her personality are due to the influence of the planet Moon on her zodiac. She makes for an excellent friend and partner and will have an innate motherly instinct.
She makes for one of the most dependable sisters in the entire zodiac spectrum. A Cancer woman will love you, protect you and will also understand you, even when you hesitate to share your feelings. She can understand your moods, emotions and things that you find difficult to talk about and will give you the most understanding look and an even understanding heart. As an elder sister, she will be a motherly figure. As a younger one, she will be obedient, loving but shy.
A Cancer woman understands the true meaning of friendship. She will be your friend, philosopher and guide for life and will always have your back. She is dependable. She is someone you can come to with every single emotion that is humanly possible ranging through the spectrum and she will listen and understand it very well. She has an understanding heart, a caring temperament and a non-judgmental outlook.
A Cancer woman doesn't get into a relationship easily. She won't give you her commitment just like that. She won't test you but definitely wants to know if you really are the one for her. She is shy and sensitive and most of her initial years of dating life up till 30s, if she is not married, would reflect her not being in relationships and people wondering why she is still single. A Cancer woman mates for life. Cancer woman loves deeply and passionately and will crave the same in return from her partner.
Loyalty, devotion and care come naturally to a Cancer Moon sign born wife. You are one lucky man if you have a wife born under the nurturing sign of Cancer. however Cancer woman is a little difficult to understand at times with her mood that wax and wane, abruptly. She is gentle, reliable, trustworthy and versatile. She will take care of her husband and family very well. She is also very good with finances and is quite homely.
A Cancer Moon sign born woman is the embodiment of motherhood. Family and children are her lifelines and the world revolves around maintaining love, harmony and happiness in her domestic life. She is vehemently protective of her children and their safety and security are foremost to her. Cancer woman is a calm, affectionate and sensitive mother with great culinary skills.
Cancer woman makes for a loyal and dependable employee. A career as a freelance writer, consultant or artist would suit her perfectly. She is determined, energetic and meticulous but won't be able to work effectively under stressful situations. With the social media rage and her great culinary skills, she can even make for a successful celebrity chef. A Cancer woman could also have great scope in medical science.
A Cancer woman is driven by the sense of security and income in a job. She will only work well and work for continuity if she sees some monetary worth in doing so. Job security and salary go hand in hand for her and she will not choose between the two. She will prove to be a great asset for your organization if her fundamental conditions are met and well-taken care of.
A female Cancer boss is very particular about the target, profitability and office decorum. She will try to diffuse any argumentative situation or conflict. She will be quite firm with her rules and regulations. She would appreciate punctuality, loyalty and hard work in her employees. She will be detail-oriented and will possess a sharp and intuitive mind.
Cancer woman's sense of finance and resource management makes her do well in entrepreneurial roles. She is focused on a part of her income being saved for the rainy days and adjusts accordingly. Trade in content, art, photography and general media will prove beneficial for her. She needs to shun her insecure nature to be able to do well in business partnerships.
For Cancer men and women, Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn and Pisces are the most compatible signs. Cancer has excellent compatibility with Taurus as both value security and stability. With Scorpio, there is a deep emotional connection. Capricorn is an example of opposites attract where both balance each other. With Pisces, the strongest emotional bond is formed as both are water signs.
Cancer individuals live life with emotional depth, love and care. Their family and home are their priority. They are loyal, devoted and sensitive. Their nurturing nature makes them unique. The influence of the Moon makes them emotionally rich but also brings mood fluctuations. Cancer natives achieve success in life through their intuition and creativity. Their greatest strength is their emotional intelligence which enables them to understand others and help them. By working on their weaknesses and recognizing their strengths, they can achieve balance and happiness in life.
1. What is the biggest characteristic of Cancer men?
Cancer men are highly loyal and nurturing who give highest priority to family.
2. What type of personality does Cancer woman have?
Cancer women are emotional, sensitive and devoted to their loved ones.
3. What should be kept in mind in relationships with Cancer natives?
They need emotional security, reassurance and open communication.
4. Which sign is most compatible with Cancer?
Taurus, Scorpio, Capricorn and Pisces are most compatible with Cancer.
5. How to understand Cancer natives?
They can be understood through patience, empathy and respecting their emotions.
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