By Pt. Amitabh Sharma
Age wise meaning food and auspicious farewell gifts

In Navratri Kanya Puja is not a mere formality. It is regarded as direct worship of the child form of Goddess Durga. In the scriptural tradition Navratri fasting is considered incomplete without Kanya Puja. Worship of girls aged 2 to 10 years on Ashtami or Navami is said to be especially fruitful.
| Aspect | Details |
|---|---|
| Festival | Navratri Ashtami or Navami |
| Age range | 2 to 10 years |
| Number | Usually 9 girls |
| Main fruit | Goddess grace and auspiciousness |
| Main food | Halwa poori chana |
| Farewell | Dakshina and auspicious gifts |
The essence of Kanya Puja is service not display. When the seeker sees the Goddess in little girls devotion does not remain limited to the temple. It enters daily conduct.
Navratri is a festival of Shakti sadhana. Along with worship of the nine forms of Goddess Durga Kanya Puja is joined because girls symbolise innocence purity and future power.
In the scriptural view the Goddess is complete even in the child form. Therefore Kanya Puja is regarded as a direct doorway to divine grace.
Girls between 2 and 10 years are chosen because in this stage the nature of the child is naturally pure simple and free from ego. With growing age worldly impressions increase so the scriptures specially value childhood.
| Age | Name mood | Fruit |
|---|---|---|
| 2 years | Kumari | Fortune and auspiciousness |
| 3 years | Trimurti | Balance of dharma artha and kama |
| 4 years | Kalyani | Welfare and happiness |
| 5 years | Rohini | Health and peace |
| 6 years | Kalika | Removal of fear and obstacles |
| 7 years | Chandika | Victory and courage |
| 8 years | Shambhavi | Knowledge and Shiva grace |
| 9 years | Durga | Complete protection |
| 10 years | Subhadra | Family auspiciousness |
This table gives traditional indications. More than counting ages the seeker should focus on respect and pure feeling.
In most traditions worship of 9 girls is considered best because they symbolise the nine Durgas. If 9 are not possible worship of 1 3 5 or 7 girls may also be done.
| Number | Mood |
|---|---|
| 1 | One pointed worship |
| 3 | Triple Goddess mood |
| 5 | Fivefold power |
| 7 | Seven Matrikas |
| 9 | Fullness of nine Durgas |
The main point is not number but purity of feeling.
If the method is followed in order the worship remains orderly and full of reverence.
Treat the girls as the Goddess. There should be no loud voice haste or discrimination. If a little girl feels shy or plays keep patience. Softness in service is true sadhana.
In tradition halwa poori and chana are considered most auspicious. They are sattvic simple and complete.
| Item | Meaning |
|---|---|
| Halwa | Sweet grace |
| Poori | Completeness |
| Chana | Strength and stability |
| Fruit | Sattva |
| Sweets | Joy |
Food should not be heavy stale or impure. Also keep the comfort and preference of the girls in mind.
The farewell gift is not only an object. It is a medium of blessing. Useful auspicious and respectful items are considered best.
| Give | Do not give |
|---|---|
| Useful item | Flashy useless item |
| Clean clothes | Torn or impure clothes |
| Educational material | Unsuitable object |
| Respectful dakshina | Too little or insulting amount |
While giving gifts keep a smile and respect. The girl should not feel burdened or treated as a formality.
Dakshina is honour of service. It is not a purchase. It is a sign of gratitude. Give according to capacity but give from the heart.
The greatest error in Kanya Puja is that a person forgets the Goddess feeling and only completes a ritual.
Yes. Worship of one own daughter niece or neighbour girls is fully valid. If outside girls are not available worship the girls of the home with Goddess feeling.
In some traditions one boy is also fed with the feeling of Bhairava or Ganesha. But the main worship is of girls. This depends on family tradition.
Kanya Puja is also linked with the auspiciousness of Venus the Moon and the ninth house. It is a karma that increases fortune family happiness child peace and mental softness.
| Area | Effect |
|---|---|
| Family | Harmony |
| Children | Auspiciousness |
| Mind | Softness |
| Home | Peace |
| Fortune | Positive movement |
When a family respects little girls compassion and humility increase in the home. Children also learn the samskara of service and respect. This worship strengthens the foundation of honour for womanhood in society.
Even in a busy life Kanya Puja is possible. If 9 girls are not available worship 1 or 3 girls with pure feeling. Keep food simple but give full respect.
Be gentler with younger girls. Do not make girls of 2 to 4 years sit for long. Keep conversation sweet with girls of 8 to 10 years. Their comfort should come first.
In most places Kanya Puja is done on Ashtami or Navami. Some families do it on both days. Respect the local tradition.
Kanya Puja is that sadhana of Navratri which turns devotion into service. Honour of girls aged 2 to 10 proper food auspicious gifts and humble farewell together open the path of Goddess grace. The seeker who sees the Mother in girls finds that the vow is no longer only fasting. It becomes an expansion of compassion.
Which age girls should be worshipped in Navratri
Worship of girls aged 2 to 10 years is considered especially auspicious.
How many girls should be invited for Kanya Puja
Nine girls are best yet 1 3 5 or 7 are also acceptable.
What food should be served to the girls
Halwa poori chana fruit and sattvic sweets are traditionally auspicious.
What gifts should be given at farewell
Clothes bangles books fruits sweets and dakshina are considered auspicious.
Is worship of family girls valid
Yes worship of family girls is fully valid and fruitful.
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