Navratri Kanya Puja Rules

By Pt. Amitabh Sharma

Age wise meaning food and auspicious farewell gifts

Navratri Kanya Puja Rules Gifts

Core Table of Kanya Puja

In Navratri Kanya Puja is not a mere formality. It is regarded as direct worship of the child form of Goddess Durga. In the scriptural tradition Navratri fasting is considered incomplete without Kanya Puja. Worship of girls aged 2 to 10 years on Ashtami or Navami is said to be especially fruitful.

Key Information

Aspect Details
Festival Navratri Ashtami or Navami
Age range 2 to 10 years
Number Usually 9 girls
Main fruit Goddess grace and auspiciousness
Main food Halwa poori chana
Farewell Dakshina and auspicious gifts

Basic Rules

  1. Respect the girls as forms of the Goddess
  2. Choose girls aged 2 to 10 years
  3. Wash their feet and apply tilak
  4. Offer sattvic food
  5. Give dakshina and useful gifts
  6. Seek blessings and bid farewell

The essence of Kanya Puja is service not display. When the seeker sees the Goddess in little girls devotion does not remain limited to the temple. It enters daily conduct.

Why Kanya Puja Is Considered Essential

Navratri is a festival of Shakti sadhana. Along with worship of the nine forms of Goddess Durga Kanya Puja is joined because girls symbolise innocence purity and future power.

In the scriptural view the Goddess is complete even in the child form. Therefore Kanya Puja is regarded as a direct doorway to divine grace.

Spiritual Reasons

  1. Honour of innocent feeling
  2. Respect for feminine power
  3. Softening of ego
  4. Grace through service
  5. Flow of auspiciousness in the family

Importance of Girls Aged 2 to 10 Years

Girls between 2 and 10 years are chosen because in this stage the nature of the child is naturally pure simple and free from ego. With growing age worldly impressions increase so the scriptures specially value childhood.

Fruits According to Age

Age Name mood Fruit
2 years Kumari Fortune and auspiciousness
3 years Trimurti Balance of dharma artha and kama
4 years Kalyani Welfare and happiness
5 years Rohini Health and peace
6 years Kalika Removal of fear and obstacles
7 years Chandika Victory and courage
8 years Shambhavi Knowledge and Shiva grace
9 years Durga Complete protection
10 years Subhadra Family auspiciousness

This table gives traditional indications. More than counting ages the seeker should focus on respect and pure feeling.

Are Exactly 9 Girls Necessary

In most traditions worship of 9 girls is considered best because they symbolise the nine Durgas. If 9 are not possible worship of 1 3 5 or 7 girls may also be done.

Meaning of Number

Number Mood
1 One pointed worship
3 Triple Goddess mood
5 Fivefold power
7 Seven Matrikas
9 Fullness of nine Durgas

The main point is not number but purity of feeling.

Correct Method of Kanya Puja

If the method is followed in order the worship remains orderly and full of reverence.

Step by Step Method

  1. Invite the girls with respect
  2. Seat them on asanas
  3. Wash and dry their feet
  4. Apply tilak
  5. Tie mauli
  6. Offer flowers and akshat
  7. Serve halwa poori and chana
  8. Offer water or a drink
  9. Give dakshina and gifts
  10. Touch their feet and take blessings

Spirit of Worship

Treat the girls as the Goddess. There should be no loud voice haste or discrimination. If a little girl feels shy or plays keep patience. Softness in service is true sadhana.

What Food Should Be Served

In tradition halwa poori and chana are considered most auspicious. They are sattvic simple and complete.

Suitable Food

Item Meaning
Halwa Sweet grace
Poori Completeness
Chana Strength and stability
Fruit Sattva
Sweets Joy

Food should not be heavy stale or impure. Also keep the comfort and preference of the girls in mind.

What Gifts Should Be Given at Farewell

The farewell gift is not only an object. It is a medium of blessing. Useful auspicious and respectful items are considered best.

Most Auspicious Gifts

  1. Clothes or chunri
  2. Bangles and bindi
  3. Comb and hair pins
  4. Book or notebook
  5. Fruits and sweets
  6. Coconut
  7. Dakshina
  8. Small necklace or protective thread

Formula for Choosing Gifts

Give Do not give
Useful item Flashy useless item
Clean clothes Torn or impure clothes
Educational material Unsuitable object
Respectful dakshina Too little or insulting amount

While giving gifts keep a smile and respect. The girl should not feel burdened or treated as a formality.

What Is the Importance of Dakshina

Dakshina is honour of service. It is not a purchase. It is a sign of gratitude. Give according to capacity but give from the heart.

Indications for Dakshina

  1. Amount according to capacity
  2. Clean notes
  3. Offering without display
  4. Request for blessing

What Should Be Avoided

Caution List

  1. Do not discriminate among girls
  2. Do not keep rich poor distinction
  3. Do not force feed
  4. Do not worship for photos and display
  5. Do not speak harsh words
  6. Do not give incomplete respect

The greatest error in Kanya Puja is that a person forgets the Goddess feeling and only completes a ritual.

Can Family Girls Be Worshipped

Yes. Worship of one own daughter niece or neighbour girls is fully valid. If outside girls are not available worship the girls of the home with Goddess feeling.

Is There Any Place for Boys

In some traditions one boy is also fed with the feeling of Bhairava or Ganesha. But the main worship is of girls. This depends on family tradition.

Astrological and Karmic View

Kanya Puja is also linked with the auspiciousness of Venus the Moon and the ninth house. It is a karma that increases fortune family happiness child peace and mental softness.

Possible Fruits

Area Effect
Family Harmony
Children Auspiciousness
Mind Softness
Home Peace
Fortune Positive movement

Psychological Importance

When a family respects little girls compassion and humility increase in the home. Children also learn the samskara of service and respect. This worship strengthens the foundation of honour for womanhood in society.

Simple Way in Modern Life

Even in a busy life Kanya Puja is possible. If 9 girls are not available worship 1 or 3 girls with pure feeling. Keep food simple but give full respect.

Simple Options

  1. Smaller number of girls
  2. Worship at home
  3. Sattvic sweets
  4. Useful small gifts
  5. Sincere prayer

Special Care According to Age

Be gentler with younger girls. Do not make girls of 2 to 4 years sit for long. Keep conversation sweet with girls of 8 to 10 years. Their comfort should come first.

Is Kanya Puja Only on Ashtami

In most places Kanya Puja is done on Ashtami or Navami. Some families do it on both days. Respect the local tradition.

Calm Closing Note

Kanya Puja is that sadhana of Navratri which turns devotion into service. Honour of girls aged 2 to 10 proper food auspicious gifts and humble farewell together open the path of Goddess grace. The seeker who sees the Mother in girls finds that the vow is no longer only fasting. It becomes an expansion of compassion.

FAQ

Which age girls should be worshipped in Navratri
Worship of girls aged 2 to 10 years is considered especially auspicious.

How many girls should be invited for Kanya Puja
Nine girls are best yet 1 3 5 or 7 are also acceptable.

What food should be served to the girls
Halwa poori chana fruit and sattvic sweets are traditionally auspicious.

What gifts should be given at farewell
Clothes bangles books fruits sweets and dakshina are considered auspicious.

Is worship of family girls valid
Yes worship of family girls is fully valid and fruitful.

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Pt. Amitabh Sharma

Pt. Amitabh Sharma (56 Years)


Experience: 20

Consults About: Family Planning, Career

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